List of things to know about blow job

If the girl likes the guy she wants to make him feel good. In all the way possible: starting from complimenting his hand-crafted figurine that looks nothing close to what was intended to all the kind of intimate stuff. And one of the things that instantly crosses one’s mind when talking about making feel good is oral sex. Girls, most of them, don’t mind giving dome but it isn’t always a piece of cake. So what is it out there that can spoil the pleasure and turn the girls off the idea to taste their boyfriends’ dick?

Here are some things that can help guys to take a look at it from the other perspective: twelve things girls want boys to know about a delicate topic of giving head. Gentlemen, take good note of what we have to say.

1. If we make an effort to wake up and bring to life your dearest and nearest friend, we do expect some appreciation. Typically, when girls play around with a guy, his joystick is at least ready to go before we get to take it in the mouth. But if we have to start from scratch, well, it can be tough and require some work to do. So be so kind and acknowledge the effort we put in to make you feel good.

2. Don’t think that when you slightly push a girl on the back of her head, you give her a favor. It is such an obvious hint that it can ruin everything. Like, we get it, you want a blowjob. And you’ll get one. But when you do this “barely-noticeable” hint, it can backfire at you: no one wants to feel obliged (unless it’s a part of your hardcore roleplay) and that’s how it makes a girl feel with your hand on her head. This one action may be enough to discourage her from any kind of oral even if she was in the mood five seconds ago.

3. We all can agree that a girl being on her knees is a super-hot way to give a blowjob. Like, seeing her (or being, from the girl’s perspective) in this submissive position can really make the blood rush to the head. Both heads. But it really involves some athletic expertise and endurance. Not even saying about legs going numb in minutes in this position. So if you want to see a girl kneeling in front of you on a regular basis, invest in a pair of kneepads and keep them by the bed.

4. The same story is about deep throating. It’s not something you should expect every time she gives you a blowjob. It is more like when we feel we want to go the extra mile to satisfy you. This is like buying an expensive wine that you wish to have on some occasions, but not for everyday dinners. Besides, some girls have serious gag reflexes that just don’t let them do it as you want. We don’t think that seeing vomit all over your dick is how you depicted it in your wildest dreams.

5. Girls know they look hot and they know you get turned on looking at them. And we know that having that ass in front of your eyes while we are doing our stuff down there is what you enjoy. It isn’t always an easy thing to give you the money shot (don’t even think about what you’re thinking), but we want to please you and give you both the feel and the look. We want to be complemented accordingly, so please take a moment to say you like it.

6. Grunts and moans and sobs you hear are sometimes made just for you. It’s not like we don’t like it, we can get really turned on while sucking off your dick. But some girls are just naturally quiet or get too concentrated on the action. And we want you to know we like it and that really helps to speed the things up.

7. The number every schoolboy grins at — sixty-nine. Sounds good, works not as well. It seems sexy and feels sexy but for some, it may be first of all tricky to master — it’s just not the most comfortable position at all. And secondly, how can we keep concentrated on doing something for you when you are doing something for us? It’s like you are offered an ice cream five miles after you started a marathon — no legit reason not to accept that treat.

8. Please, let us know when you are going to come. A warning about the upcoming eruption is always appreciated and often necessary. Sometimes we can predict by a thousand signs that a guy is close to climax, but sometimes we just get an unexpected shot of jizz. And god help you if it lands in the hair.

9. We don’t mind schlobbing on a knob while you are driving. But bare in mind that it very much depends on where you are driving. A journey on a deserted straight interstate that takes three hours? Yes! A drive to the local pizzeria to grab a pre-ordered dinner? Forget about it!

10. Sex in the shower is complicated and it either works or not, there is no such thing as so-so shower sex. The same is with dicksucking — it is very complicated and there is a ton of things that can go wrong: from her choking on soapy water that drips off his end to a shower curtain falling on top of the heads. So if it works, say thank you and smile. If it doesn’t, do the same. We do our best, but sometimes it just doesn’t happen as it should happen.

11. Don’t think that every time you get to have sex with a girl you’ve got to have your little friend treated. If we decide to have your dick in the mouth over and over again, it’s fair play and you might expect to have it like this over and over again. But it doesn’t always happen like this. Be happy when you have a chance to enjoy orals, but don’t think you will have this dessert after every other meal.

12. We are not robots and we don’t have endless stamina. If it’s been half an hour into the process and you are not even close to finishing, don’t expect a girl to continue until the very end. Unless you are ready to do the same. In another case, buy yourself a sex-robot.

So, next time you’ll be about to have a blowjob, just mind these simple tips and you’ll be rewarded multiple times. And if you have any other tips that might help, feel free to share them in the comments!